Communication Problem.

I don't mind flipping the dictionary or using all kinds of body language to convey my message.
I don't mind spending 10 minutes just to figure out what you say.
But it drives me nuts when all I see was endless "#123230;". There's no way for me to figure the whole chunk of them out.

Oh well, on the other hand, that is just so you.

xoxo (:

Every where, Every moment.

不说你又不懂，说了你又不听

你们爱逼小孩做他们不想做的事情，然后他们闹别扭后又觉得他们情绪化，怪他们不懂怎么说“不”。
请问从小到大是谁教导孩子“要听大人的话”？一大堆大人强逼孩子做他们不愿意做的事情，你们认为他有抗拒的权利吗？
跟你们解释孩子们是怎么想后，你们又认为小孩假正经。
请问是谁教导孩子“要对长辈有礼貌”？有礼貌的小孩子会耍人性，违反长辈的意愿吗？

也许是自己20岁了，徘徊在小孩与大人之间的灰色地带，所以才敢加入大人们之间的“辩论会”。
我知道事情没有谁对谁错，毕竟不是每个人的想法都一样。
但是我只要大人在为孩子做出任何决定时，先征求他们的意见。他们很爱“假正经”、脸皮薄，不敢提出自己的意见。
我也希望小孩在不开心时要让大人们知道原因。他们老了，经历了很多，脸皮自然比你们的厚。你有事就要 shoot，不然他们会不懂的。

这是我在20岁时对于大人和小孩之间产生的沟通问题的观点。
还有多一年我就会被归类为真正的大人了。虽然有时候觉得大人们的做法很让人受不了，但我还是很担心自己在变成大人后也会像现在的大人一样。

天啊~！我只想大人们不要把他们复杂的世界带进小孩单纯的世界里。

xoxo (:

Wait for me.

Just wait for me.

OH MY GOSH!!!

I've finally decided to get my fat ass off to exercise after bringing back extra 5 kilos from Wuhan.
I've turned so fair now! The sun at Wuhan was not enough to bake me.
I tried swimming-cum-suntanning yesterday and I swallowed 2 mouthful of water and almost died in the pool.
I tried jogging today and I almost suffered from heat stroke. On top of that, it took me half an hour to run half of Bukit Panjang. I used to run around the whole of Bukit Panjang in 45 minutes.

Damn it! I want my stamina back!!!
And I'm still trying very hard to adapt to Singapore's hot weather.
We can never enjoy the shiokness of wearing FBTs and loiter around the 5'c Wuhan streets over here.
Not even running around naked in Singapore's monsoon season.

I saw a guy at my bustop today, and he was wearing a beanie. I freaking don't understand why, is he that freaking cold?! I was perspiring like a pig!!!

I guess I can only jog in the night for the time being. This is to prevent me from getting heat stroke and faint in the middle of Bukit Panjang.

xoxo (:

Sick :(

15 souls who just got back from Wuhan are suffering from Love sick and Home sick.
Save them, QUICK!!!

xoxo (':

Homesick.

I've been busy meeting up with friends.
Mum just called, saying that it feels like I'm still at Wuhan. They could hardly catch me at home.

We're back at home leading our own lives.
Friends have been telling me that they feel empty inside.
I thought I was the only one.


"去一個地方，想念一個地方，都是因爲那裏的人， 而不是那裏的風景，一個城市會跟自己聯繫起來，也是因為那裏有和自己相關的人，有你放不下的人 "



xoxo (:

Hello, Singapore!

It's nice to be able to chill out with the clique at plaza mac once again once I touched down.
The feeling of strolling home on Bukit Panjang Streets at 3am is still as great.
It felt as if I've never left Singapore at all.
But once I reached my void deck, I started digging my wallet for my room card.
And that was when I'm convinced that I was at Wuhan for the past 20 weeks.

It's good to be home.
But I feel homesick.

Anyway, hello Singapore. I'm back. :)

xoxo (:

我们的故事

这四个月所发生的一切不断反复在我脑海里浮现。
真的感觉好像昨天才抵达武汉。

我们一大群人到武商狂扫日常用品；
每天到群光大买零食，充当富婆，连走路都感觉有风的时候；
开心时就把朋友们都叫在一起饮酒作乐；
饭后没事做时就到阳台喝酒、乘凉；
喝醉后到邻居的房间发酒疯；
因为大家住得太靠近所以会常常在最后关头才召集组员一起通宵完成呈现；
早上互相打电话 morning call 给彼此然后一起走到 8 号楼；
大家在武汉酷热的夏天里爬上 7 楼的教室后汗流浃背的表情；
我们在 1302 喝酒时一起第一次经历宿舍大停电的那个晚上；
天气太冷，水管结冰没水刷牙、洗脸、冲凉、大小便的时候；
宿舍每次动不动断电连电梯都无法使用，然后大家就会边爬楼梯边大骂粗话的时候；
大家聚集在 Club 901 开 party 的时候；
因为食物实在是太好吃也太便宜所以拼命 stock up；
食物好吃得连老鼠都闯进来偷吃食物；
太习惯一天吃 7 餐，增肥后拼命打乒乓球想要消耗多一点热量；
因为打乒乓而发生的小插曲；
生病时收到你问候的短讯；
刚开始沟通时鸡同鸭讲的我们；
冰淇淋吃到一半心跳莫名其妙加速的那个下午；
我要到北京旅行的前一个晚上；
送你卡片和礼物那个晚上；
凌晨 3 点钟我们都还睡不着的那个晚上；
风太大的那个晚上；
为你感到不知所措时而被朋友们认为自己很笨的时候；
当我继续笨下去时朋友没有放弃我，反而给予我更多温暖的祝福和鼓励的时候...

和同学们经历的太多太多，和你经历的也不少。
因为你，我发现到原来同学们是真的发自内心关心我。
虽然不赞同，但他们并没有反对。他们甚至愿意为我安排生日惊喜，愿意在昨天的 KTV Session 时让每位同学各点唱一首歌给我，希望我能勇敢。
亲爱的同学们，我都有用心在听。我还把歌都录下来了。
还是要说声谢谢，我很感动！

现在，我开始期待回家了。
xoxo (:

我要走了

至少你记忆里的我 是微笑的
亲爱的 有你牵着我的那些日子
真的好快乐

我舍不得 可是时间回不去了
爱你很值得 只是该停了
没有我你要好好的

我舍不得 最后一次抱紧你了
我们错过的 错了就错了
不用担心我 我走了


非常感谢同学们今晚所给予我的祝福和勇气，我很~~感动。
我会加油的！ ((:

xoxo (:

我二十岁了！！！

My Big Two-O birthday was a very sweet and memorable one.

Thanks for all the effort you guys have made to give me the surprise.
Be it roomie's gift and cards;
Bel, huiting and cindy's birthday song;
Tiramisu from Sian Choo, Cindy and Weiting;
Heinekens from bel and huiting;
Pudding cake from Cheng Yao;
Another Pudding cake from Ding Xuan and Yaxin;
And a lovely birthday cake from Doraemon Onni.

Sunny Warm greetings from Singapore;

Of course, the unforgettable cake cutting session.

You guys warm my heart in this 3'c wintry Wuhan Night. ((:

I'm really happy and touched. I really don't know how to put them into words, but still, thank you! (:
And while waiting for the cake cutting session to start, there were mermaids everywhere in my homely 1301
All of us had been having late nights due to exams and they still bothered to plan all the surprises. *tears*
'
And it's Huiting's birthday today too!

Happy 20th, woman! Remember, Capricorns rocks~! ((:
Happy birthday to Yang, Nicole and Peijun!

One serious question to ask
Do I really freaking look or behave like a 20-year-old?!

Ok, last paper tomorrow~
But I wish time could freeze once the paper is over.

xoxo (:

好饱！

还有多七天就要回家了。
心情很复杂。
忙考试，忙最后的淘宝冲刺，忙收拾行李，忙与这里结识的朋友聚餐道别，忙多看华师的风景，忙享受冬天的爽感，忙寻找自己要的是什么，忙收拾心情，忙。。。

买礼物是最让人头疼的事，一直认为时间还很多，怎知一眨眼时间就过去了。
开始收拾行李，东西还没完全收拾好行李箱却已经没有位了！

送给亲戚的礼物最难买，大人什么都不缺，所以买吃的是最实际的吧。
我神经质的室友今天考完试后竟然到武商大扫武汉特产！
真的好多，而且必须一个一个慢慢品尝，看哪种口味适合送人。
肚子快撑死了！~ @_@

烦到爆炸。
那~~~~~~ 么多事情要办，都说我不想回国了嘛。

xoxo (:

奇怪 好快！

昨天，南老师又来了。
他怎么又来了呢？
他不是昨天才刚刚跟 Ray 老师一起回国吗？
才一下子，他怎么又来了？
他是忘了把什么东西带回国而回来吗？
我想应该是他太想念我们了，所以要来把我们带回新加坡... :(

还有，他说我发福了...!!

xoxo (:

Let's get drown in exams yo!

Today marks the first day of our exams.
Roomie and I had a very good start for the day.

My alarm rang and I switched it off unknowingly.
Roomie's alarm rang and I thought there isn't any school today.

I heard people knocking on our door continuously.
I checked the clock and it was 8.30am already, and our paper starts at 9am!
I quickly jumped out of the bed, pulled roomie out of bed and luckily we still made it on time for the paper.
Thanks Lynnette~! (:

鲁迅's 《娜拉出走后怎样》：“人生最苦痛的是梦醒了无路可走。做梦的人是幸福的......” keep flowing in my mind the whole night.

No wonder I don't want to wake up lar.

Time flies. It's the start of exams already. 3 days after our exams, we'll be heading back home.
And god knows when will be the next time we will meet again.

Argh~ Optimism, LIWEN!!! You've got 9 more days to create miracle!!! ((:
*Sings "I want nobody, nobody but you~ Nobody, nobody but you~" *<3

xoxo (:

Us in Korean Version

Did I ever mention that we've found ourselves a Korean version of Lynnette and I?
They are none other than dear 李惠荣 onni and 南仑庭 onni~ ((:
Lynnette is so similar to 李惠荣 onni, and I'm just like 南仑庭 onni too!

Have been playing and fooling around with them in their rooms for the past few weeks.
We had 韩式烤肉 in their room on New Year's Eve.
As usual, 李惠荣 onni will be doing all the cooking and all we have to do is to eat.

They taught us this Korean style of eating rice with BBQ pork, gosh, it was super delicious!
They introduced us to this very fun Korean card game: GO STOP. Lynnette Chow must be wearing red underwear that day, she became the overall winner. *Smack forehead*

Unfortunately, 李惠荣 onni is leaving for 海南岛 for holiday tomorrow and will be back on the 16th.
Whereas for 南仑庭 onni, she will be leaving for Beijing for holiday on the 10th and will be back on 19th.
We're going to Singapore on the 17th, which means they can't make it back on time before we leave. :(
And so, we went to 东南门 for a very fulfilling dinner today! (:




It's so cool to find someone of other nationality who behaves exactly the same way as you.
So glad that there's 南仑庭 onni around. Will never forget that both of us have so much in common, such as we love the cold weather, our hands and legs are forever cold as ice, we have many white hairs, we always have bruise at the same part of our body, and of course, both of us don't give a shit about our image. She loves to wrap cloths and what nots around her head too! HAHAHA.

The 2 of them took great care of Lynnette and I for the past few weeks, and it felt so nice when they addressed us as “我们的妹妹”. They're like elder sisters to us, cook for us, nag us to study, bring us out to enjoy, and urge us to go all out for our sweetheart here.

So lucky to get to know the 2 of them. ((:

Cheers to our friendship! ((:

xoxo (:

下雪了！

I was trying very hard to get myself into revision mood, and I recieved an sms from Xia Li.

I thought what I heard was just raindrops. But hey! Since when did the raindrops turn into white flakes?
Ok fine. You can't really enjoy the beauty of snowing from this picture. But just imagine all these white dots falling down from the sky! Just like how the raindrops fall down from the sky too!!! (:


I immediately called Bel (coz I know only she would pick up phone calls) to inform her that it started snowing.

I could hear elephants stomping outside my room 3 minutes after we hung up, and TADA~ all of them dashed into my room and went to the balcony to watch the snow.


The snow lasted for about 30minutes and we spent the rest of our night chatting away in my room.

Ohh man! I don't want to go home yet!!! *SCREAM*

xoxo (:

That black hair asian girl.

I'll bet she's beautiful, that girl he talks about

下雪了，你也看见了吗？

xoxo ((: